The best way to predict the future of your relationship is to create it - John Gottman

Couples & Relational Therapy

Relationships can be a source of connection, safety, joy, and meaning. They can also bring up old wounds, unmet needs, conflict patterns, fear, resentment, disconnection, or uncertainty about how to move forward.

At The Art of Healing, we offer couples and relational therapy for people who want to better understand themselves, their partners, and the patterns that shape their relationships. Our therapists provide a warm, affirming, and nonjudgmental space for couples, partners, and relationship systems of many kinds.

We welcome LGBTQIA+ relationships, queer relationships, non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships, long-term partnerships, dating relationships, co-parents, and nontraditional family structures.

When Relationships Feel Stuck

You may be seeking relational therapy because communication has become difficult, conflict keeps repeating, or emotional distance has grown over time. You may feel lonely in the relationship, unsure how to repair trust, or caught in cycles of defensiveness, withdrawal, criticism, jealousy, anxiety, or disconnection.

Relational therapy can help slow these patterns down. Together, we explore what is happening underneath the conflict, what each person may be protecting, and what is needed to create more emotional safety, honesty, and connection.

Therapy Can Support You With

Communication challenges and recurring conflict

Emotional distance, loneliness, or disconnection

Trust, repair, betrayal, or relational wounds

Jealousy, insecurity, fear, or anxiety in relationships

Intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional closeness

Life transitions, parenting stress, or family stress

Co-parenting and blended family dynamics

LGBTQIA+ relationship stressors and identity-related concerns

Non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship agreements, and changing relationship structures

Differences in needs, values, communication styles, or attachment patterns

Neurodivergence, sensory needs, and nervous system differences in relationships

Grief, trauma, or past experiences affecting current relationships

Affirming Support for Diverse Relationship Structures

Every relationship has its own culture, agreements, strengths, challenges, and history. We do not assume there is one “right” way to build a meaningful relationship.

Our therapists offer affirming care for LGBTQIA+ couples and partners, polyamorous and consensually non-monogamous relationships, mixed-orientation relationships, neurodiverse relationships, and other nontraditional relationship structures. We support clients in clarifying needs, strengthening communication, navigating boundaries, and building relationships that feel more honest, respectful, and emotionally safe.


A Relational and Trauma-Informed Approach

Relational therapy is not about deciding who is right or wrong. It is about understanding the patterns that keep people stuck and helping each person feel more seen, heard, and accountable.

Our therapists bring a trauma-informed, attachment-aware, culturally responsive, and neurodivergent-affirming lens to relational work. We consider how family history, identity, culture, nervous systems, trauma, stress, parenting, and life transitions may shape the way people connect, protect themselves, and respond to conflict.

Depending on your needs and the clinician you work with, therapy may include communication work, emotion-focused exploration, attachment-based therapy, DBT-informed skills, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, identity-affirming support, or traditional talk therapy.

Rebuilding Emotional Safety

Many couples and partners do not come to therapy because they lack love. They come because they feel caught in patterns they do not know how to change.

Therapy can help you understand those patterns, communicate with more clarity, repair ruptures, set boundaries, and reconnect with the parts of the relationship that need care. The goal is not perfection. The goal is greater honesty, emotional safety, connection, and the ability to move through hard moments with more understanding.

Couples & Relational Therapy in Edina and Online

The Art of Healing offers in-person couples and relational therapy in Edina, Minnesota, and secure telehealth for clients located in Minnesota, Wisconsin, and California. Our experienced, licensed mental health providers offer affirming support for couples, partners, co-parents, LGBTQIA+ relationships, polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships, neurodiverse relationships, and people navigating communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, identity, and life transitions.

Contact us to learn more or schedule an appointment.